Focus on the positive attributes of those around you, including YOU! In our imperfect world this can be challenging, but is well worth the effort. As you practice this, it becomes more natural and is an attractive trait. People like to be around those who have a spirit of lightness and dwell on goodness. Don’t you?
The best way to begin this exercise is with you. So much of the time we are experts at seeing our flaws and beating ourselves up over mistakes and shortcomings. It is much easier to accept others when you first accept yourself, just the way you are. If you don’t love you, how can you love another?
This being said, we must also work on ourselves each day to become the best we can be. Reading a great book for 30 minutes each day will help us discover ways in which we are able to grow. When we do this, we open up to an amazing world of possibilities.